a man being shyKnowing how to tell if a shy guy likes you can save you a lot of trouble and wasted time wondering if he is really into you or not.

Many women tend to over-analyze when it come to figuring out if a guy likes them. Many times it can be obvious or the guy just straight comes out and tells you in some way. However, when it comes to shy guys, it can often not be so clear.

So, do you have the hots for a guy who is a little shy? Or is there a shy guy in your friend group or at work who you think may fancy you, but you’re just not quite sure?

When it comes to shy guys, it can often be confusing to figure out exactly where he’s coming from and you can often wonder if he is into you as much as you hope he is.

Often, the complex behavior of a shy guy can cause you to think that you may be reading too much into the way he acts. Maybe the traits you take for shyness are really just disinterest. So this is very important to get right if you don’t want to embarrass yourself by arriving at the wrong conclusion.

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However, fear not, there are several signs that will tell you for sure if a shy guy really does have the hots for you. Here are five of the most common ones.

 

Top Signs a Shy Guy Likes You

 

He Makes No Eye Contact

A guy who is disinterested is not going to go out of his way to make eye contact with you, but neither will a shy guy. The one difference is that the shy guy will try to catch glimpses of you when he thinks you are not looking and will also start to feel nervous if you catch him checking you out.

If you do catch him eyeing you up, don’t give him a hard time or make him feel uncomfortable. After all, he likes you and wants to admire your beauty. However, he does not want you to catch him snagging glimpses of you. For this reason, he will do one distinct thing.

While he takes in your beauty from afar, he will quickly look away if you catch him looking at you. Whatever you do, don’t jump to conclusions. If it happens once, it could just be a coincidence. If it happens time and again, you may have yourself a shy admirer.

If you do catch him looking at you more than a few times, don’t call him out on this. Take your time to gather a few more sure signs that this is indeed attraction.

If you like him too then, one of the best things you can do is to smile at him and let him know that you’re liking his attention if you catch him gazing at you. This will help him to feel more comfortable with you and increase the chances of him actually approaching you to ask you out.

He’s Clumsy – But Cute

A shy guy might lose all sense of coordination around you and do his best to make it look like he meant to drop those books or his cell phone at your feet. Anytime a shy guy acts clumsy it is usually because he is nervous to see or talk to you. Things will fall, things will drop – he might even tie his shoes together in your presence and trip as he walks off.

The reason this happens is that a shy guy will become so preoccupied with his thoughts about how he may be coming across to you in your presence that he will not have his attention in the present moment.

You have to admit that this sort of thing is kind of cute, but you don’t want to draw too much attention to the clumsiness. It could embarrass him and cause him to become discouraged in being able to connect with you more.

Along the lines of being clumsy, he may also simply act silly around you. He may do ridiculous things to get you to laugh. Sometimes a shy guy has no problem letting his sense of humor shine through if this is his gift. Just keep taking notes about him in your head. There are still a few more signs that will point to his genuine interest in you.

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He Sends Mixed Signals

He may be able to talk to you one day but the next he acts like you are invisible. Maybe one day he is hamming it up with you and the next he seems completely indifferent.

This is a hard sign to decode, but if it is present with all the others, it could be he is still struggling with trying not to act like a fool around you because of how much he likes you.

When a shy guy does this, it is usually for two reasons;

1. He’s feeling more self-conscious around you at that time than other times
2. He has convinced himself that you are not interested in him so he is trying not to make it obvious that he likes you

The other reason for a guy doing this is of course, that he is just not interested in you. These mixes signals can cause a lot of confusion for women. On the one hand, you don’t want to dismiss him in case he does really have the hots for you and the two of you could strike up a great relationship. On the other hand, however, you don’t want to embarrass yourself, be messed around or have him just waste your time.

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He Acts Different Around Others

This is something that you will have to pay careful attention to. Does he act a little weird around you but when he returns to his friends to talk he seems perfectly normal? Does he have a problem looking you in the eye when making small talk but when he talks to them he has no problem focusing?

Maybe he has not said one word to you, but when his friends show up, he’s a regular chatterbox. Shy guys act like regular guys around their buddies, but when they are in the presence of someone they like, they sure act differently.

This is a sure sign that he fancies you but is finding it a little difficult to act normal around you.

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He Suddenly Seems Snippy

When you do get a chance to talk with him he often speaks, in short, staccato sentences. He might even sound like he’s a little snippy with you. Don’t worry; this usually has to do with his nerves.

Again, make sure to see how he is addressing his friends or other women. If he sounds fine with them, but there is something off with the way he’s speaking to you it could be that he is really struggling to get the nerve up to do something about these feelings he has for you.

What To Do About The Shy Guy?

So, if you have amassed many occasions of the shy guy’s behavior and speech around you and it seems like he does have feelings for you, what should you do? You don’t want to act indifferent and non-threatening, but you also don’t want to ask him out right away either.

Know that, with a shy guy you will most likely need to give him a few slightly more obvious clues that you like him, more so than you would need to with a more self-assured man.

What you can do is compliment him as honestly as you can. Flattery will most likely make him feel more comfortable with you and give him an idea that you may like him, too.

Engage him in more conversations and, when the time is right, find a reason to offer him your number and welcome him to text you. When you do so, be slightly and subtly flirtatious so he gets a clear idea as to why you may be giving him your number.

Hopefully, this will be enough to give him the confidence to pursue you. If not, then a gentle text message from you a few days later saying it was great to chat with him the other day should do the trick.

If the two of you start texting each other then, the next article you may want to read is, How To Flirt With a Guy Using Text Messages.

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