Author: Nick Bastion
Many women wonder about what men really want in a woman that they can see themselves with forever.
This list is a list of the top things that men want in a woman, so that you can find Mr. Right and show him that you’re the woman of his dreams.
The Top 5 Things Every Man Wants In A Woman
1. A Woman Who Is Accepting
Men want a woman who is able to accept them for who they really are. Men walk around putting on a “mask” to society, but what most men really want deep down is to be known and understood for who they really are.
This is why men want an accepting, non-judgmental woman. Judgmental, mean women are generally going to become less attractive in a man’s eyes. If a man has any choice in who he is going to date, he will not choose a mean, judgmental woman.
Being accepted for who he is is one of the keys to making a man truly happy. For more on how to make a man deeply happy, I wrote an article on Vixen Daily that reveals the secrets.
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2. A Woman Who Is Comfortable Being Herself
Nothing is more attractive than a woman who is comfortable in her skin and not afraid to be herself.
Men want a woman who can voice her true opinions and also voice what she wants in general (in an emotionally honest yet calm way).
This leads me to my next point…
3. A Woman Who Can Control Her Emotions
Men want a woman who is able to control her emotions and handle situations that come about without becoming too hysterical and out of control.
I am not saying be an emotionless robot; what I mean is… men want a woman who is able to listen to a conversation without reacting automatically in a very dramatic, out of control way. This scares men away.
Being able to express your feelings without adding overtones of drama is a major quality that makes you irresistible to men (This article on Anewmode is a great resource for how to be irresistible to the man you want).
See also: How To Keep Your Guy Interested In You
4. A Woman Who Has a Sense of Humor
Men love a woman who can laugh at herself and at life. Don’t take life too seriously. Roll with the punches rather than being unwilling to let go and simply laugh.
Embrace the joy you find in life instead of refusing to be silly and playful. Men love happy, playful women. A happy woman is one of the most important things that makes a man happy. It automatically makes you more attractive if you have a smile on your face.
See also: How To Become A Guy’s Secret Obsession
5. A Woman On His “Team”
The reason relationships (or budding relationships) fall apart is often because a woman feels like she is doing everything she can for the relationship, going out of her way to make the man happy (for example, by cooking for him, giving him sexual favors or whatever it may be….) and the more she does, the more the man seems to pull away and lose interest.
This makes her frustrated and confused because she is putting in so much effort and yet cannot make him happy no matter how hard she tries.
This is not what a man wants. A man wants a woman who is on his team not going out of her way to do things to get an outcome. A man wants a woman who brings something to the table and is not just trying to “get” something out of the relationship.
Here is an analogy. Imagine there is a rowing boat in the ocean. Each of you have an oar, each on one side of the boat. If one person is rowing, you’re going to go in circles, if you row together you’re going to go straight forward at full speed, enriching each other’s lives… making each other’s lives richer and better.
If you do not work as a team and instead look at the relationship as if you are keeping score (i.e you do this for me, I do this for you and if you do not do this for me, then I will not do this for you… and I expect you to do this for me in order to make me happy and feel OK).
The point is: if you keep score you end up becoming resentful and one person feels like they’re doing more work than the other.
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