Life after Cheating: How To Handle It & When To Walk Away

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Cheating is always a difficult test for a couple. Even if you are ready to give the relationship another chance, what happened can last a long time, causing pain and deter you from being able to step forward.

“You have the right to control it to be sure that everything is really finished” – we often hear such advice.

How justified are they?

The partner should prove he/she learned a lesson

You can redistribute property and finances within the family, which will demonstrate that the cheating partner intends to confirm his allegiance and is not going to repeat the cheating.

For example, if all the joint property is owned by the husband, you can exchange this for ownership in equal shares. This will be a real demonstration of the intention to be faithful.

It is important to deal with the causes of cheating because the responsibility usually lies with both partners. Cheating occurs when it is impossible to come to a constructive agreement, to understand each other’s feelings, to honestly satisfy marriage needs. If your partner googles how to find a foreign girlfriend, he is not the one to blame.

If you forgive, you let the offense go

Sometimes an unconscious provocation of the injured party is traced behind it, and then the whole scheme of relations must be changed. The position “I am offended, conquer me, and I will still look at your behavior” is always destructive.

It is important to accept and support the general decision to maintain relations and not to fall offended. This point can cause indignation: the partner has cheated, but the actions to improve relations are mutual. However, without recognition of mutual responsibility, steps towards each other are impossible.

You have forgiven and want to start a relationship from scratch, but doubts about the honesty of the partner are natural. You can dictate several conditions to them. Their implementation will help you feel more confident and will prove that they really broke off relations with another person.

Be a little strict

You should have free access to their mail, phone and social networks. Ask them to send a message to the person with whom they cheated in your presence, confirming that everything in between is in the past.

If they write something in response, you can notify this person that you are aware of what has happened and urge them to respect your partner’s decision and not chase your family. Of course, it is impossible to maintain any friendly relations.

Demand not only the removal of all personal contacts but also the blocking of accounts on social networks. It will not be superfluous to offer the partner to change the phone number and mail address.

If they are colleagues, insist on keeping professional contacts to a minimum. In the event that they cannot influence this, ask them to talk to the management about this, even if they have to explain the true reason.

If your partner refuses, fearing for reputation, recall that they should have worried about this before. Most likely, it will be difficult for them to go to all your conditions. But your partner must understand: the restoration of trust is only possible if you are completely sure that the relationship is broken.

How to understand that a partner is ready?

He/she is open to talks about why this happened and what you, as a couple, can do to ensure that the episode of cheating is forever in the past. They do not ignore your feelings, the need to understand what happened and ask questions that you want answers to.

From time to time, memories of what happened may come back and hurt you. It seems to you that you made a mistake and can’t trust your partner anymore.

This does not mean that your relationship has no future, and you need to give yourself and them time.

 Honesty is required but not total control

It is impossible to gain confidence and prove that everything is really in the past just by handing over the phone for verification.

This can be a one-time action, which is more like a surgical operation: it is useful to see that the connection is complete and the intentions are indicated.

In the future, an attempt to roughly invade the private space of a partner will not restore relations.

The person who cheated is like a prisoner under supervision, and the victim is made an overseer and fixes their attention on traumatic suspicions and the search for evidence, and not on treatment.

Openness and lack of secrets between partners at this difficult stage of the relationship are necessary, but other actions are also needed. Sometimes it’s worth changing something globally.

This can be dismissal or relocation because the very fact of the involvement of colleagues or friends who knew about the cheatings makes the affected partner constantly feel humiliated.

Written by: Eva White

How to Make Him Interested Again After the Chase

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Things were going great. You and your new guy were constantly texting back and forth.

He was sending you, “Good morning” and “Goodnight” texts daily.

He was initiating dates, and there was an undeniable connection between you…

But now? It’s just crickets…

You know in your gut that things just aren’t the same on his end. He’s not texting as much. He’s not asking you out, or if he does, it’s at the last minute.

Ugh. Now, what..?

First, don’t panic. Sometimes guys blow hot and cold, especially at the beginning of a relationship.

If you’re not asking yourself, “how to make him interested again?” don’t worry, all might not be lost between you and your new guy.

Sending him a few clever text messages based on male psychology like these ones is the first thing you need to do to get his attention.

With the below tips, you’ll be able to snag his attention again — or know whether you should kick him to the curb.

How To Make Him Interested Again Once He Thinks He Has You

Focus on You

If your guy is blowing hot and cold at the moment then it’s time for you to focus on you for a while.

Yes, we know it’s hard not to think about the guy who you’re really into, and it’s always harder not to think about him when he’s not talking to you…but that’s exactly why you should.

If he’s not actively pursuing you that’s a sign for you to return to your hobbies, interests, and friends that you might’ve neglected while you were in lovey-dovey land.

How does this bring him back? Well, you’ll be so into yourself that you’re not thinking about him — or texting him — and that might be enough to pique a man’s curiosity.

If you’re not texting him, he might wonder: who are you texting? Besides, if you don’t hear from him, then you really know your answer.

Related article: 7 ways to keep a guy interested in you long-term

Unless You’re Committed, Keep Thinking You’re Single

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According to dating expert Mark Rosenfeld if you find that men lose interest in you after a few dates, then that usually stems from a fear of scarcity.

In his YouTube video, How To Keep A Guy Chasing (Why He Lost Interest And Stopped Chasing), Rosenfeld describes the pattern that most women fall into when they like a guy.

As he puts it, you stop acting single and you start mentally thinking he’s the one before he’s actually committed.

Sound familiar..?

Because you’re already thinking you’re together, you become more anxious and fearful about your status and whether or not you’ve messed it up when you don’t hear from him.

When a guy feels this energy from you, he immediately backs away.

So, what to do?

Keep dating other men, and keep an open mind about him and other guys.

Your energy will instantly elevate and relax, which will either attract him back, or another man who’s better suited for you will come into your life.

See also: What you can do to keep him interested in the early stages

Flip the Chase

A number of men back away when you’ve stopped yourself from being pursued, and in turn, become the predator.

Men not only like the thrill of the chase but some can spook easily when you come off strong because they don’t know how to handle the attention.

So, what’s the solution to this?

According to dating expert Dr Ali Binazir, and author of “Tao of Dating,” you need to flip the chase back to him. He suggests to send a playful text like this one. Make it known that you want to see him again, but on your terms.

Here’s an example:

“Hey, handsome. When are you going to take me out again?”

Then step back and wait for him to get back to you.

Don’t send him another text until you’ve heard from him as double texting can really kill the attraction.

Instead, just wait for him to reply. Whether or not he responds with an invitation is all the info you need.

Related article: Fun ways to keep a guy interested through text

Be Cool

While you might be tempted to reach out multiple times, or send him a snarky text after a few weeks of no communication, it’s in your best interest to take the high road. Getting nasty will only make you look bad and it will send him further away, and he’ll likely disappear altogether.

Don’t give him the satisfaction of being that “crazy woman” either. You’re better than that. Give him space and do you.

For all you know, his dog died and he just needs some space right now. If that’s the case, he will appreciate you respecting it and being the self-sufficient woman you are.

How to Make Him Interested Again – Final Thoughts

When a guy loses interest, it can feel horrible. You will probably second guess yourself and wonder what you did wrong.

While it’s difficult not to take it personally, that’s what you need to do.

Most of the time when a guy loses interest, there’s nothing you could’ve done differently. Either you weren’t a good match or he wasn’t the man for you. Because the man who is meant for you will not lose interest. And even if he does disappear for a while, he will always return.

When he does come back, the man for you will show up consistently with the intention of moving forward you in a committed relationship with you.

Demand nothing less. You’re worth it!

Still asking yourself how to make him interested again? Check out this clever advice from world-renowned relationship expert, Amy North.

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Top Signs He Wants a Relationship With You

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A couple in a happy relationshipYou’re dating an amazing guy, and you definitely see things moving from casual dating to relationship status. But as much as you feel a connection with him, you can’t help but wonder if he’s serious about you…

Is he looking for a commitment or is he just having fun..?

Sometimes (okay, a lot of times) men can be hard to read, especially when it comes to dating. You might not want to bring up the “What are we?” question or the “Where do you see this relationship going?” conversation in fear of putting any unwanted pressure on your new guy.

Never fear. If you’re wondering if your new man wants a relationship with you, here are some of the top signs that can help to clue you in that he’s also interested in something more with you.

5 Clear Signs He Wants a Relationship With You

He Knows You as a Person — Not Just as a Body

Does your guy know your favorite meal? Does he know what you like to do in your spare time? If so, then according to relationship expert Adam LoDolce’s YouTube video, that’s a pretty surefire sign he wants a serious relationship with you.

LoDolce explains that no matter how hot the chemistry might be between you, if he doesn’t know what you do for a living or your best friend’s name, then he doesn’t want to further along with the relationship. But if he’s trying to learn more about you and asking you meaningful questions on a regular basis, then he’s serious about cementing things.

Related article: Things men want in a relationship

He Wants to See You All the Time

Okay, maybe not all the time, but if your man is consistently making plans to see you and creating space in his schedule to spend time with you then he wants a relationship with you. Important: spending time together doesn’t mean just having sex.

It’s trying new activities together, having fun, and growing and exploring your connection together. If your guy is regularly seeing you and making that connection work to the best of his ability, then he wants more with you. A man who wants a relationship will want to see you as much as he can.

He Plans Ahead

A man who wants a relationship with you is thinking about the future with you. That means he’s talking about taking a vacation with you next summer or asking if you want to see that cool concert series in a few months. He might even go one step further and buy the tickets.

A man who wants to be serious is serious about seeing you in his future, and won’t be afraid to say it. A man who only wants to be casual with you won’t talk about anything other than the here and now (if that).

See also: 6 things to keep him interested in a long-distance relationship

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He Introduces You to His Friends and Family

Another sign that your new guy is serious about you is that he’s excited for you to meet his friends and family. A man who only wants a casual thing will do anything he can to avoid you introducing you to his inner circle. A man who wants more with you? He can’t wait to show you off to everyone he knows.

So if your man is asking you to attend family dinners and is psyched for you to join him and his buddies for Sunday football viewings, then you can be sure that he definitely wants a relationship with you.

You may also like: How to seduce a guy with your words

He Says (or Infers) Exclusivity

a couple kissingIf a guy wants a relationship with you, then he’s going to want to be exclusive with you. That way he knows that there isn’t a chance of another man swooping in and sweeping you off his feet. If a man wants exclusivity with you, according to relationship expert Mathew Boggs, he’ll either directly say it to you or he might infer it.

For example, he might ask you if you’re still using dating apps. If you tell him yes, then a man who wants to be with you and only you, won’t like it. A man who isn’t serious about you might shrug it off. Bogs says that might be a good opportunity to ask the question, “Does this mean you want to be exclusive with me?” If a man doesn’t want to be exclusive with you, he will let you know. If he does, he will.

Men are sometimes hard to read but when a man is truly into you and wants a relationship with you, then he will definitely give you clear and consistent signs that he’s serious. Quite simply, a man who is genuinely interested in you will act like it. Your guy might not demonstrate all of the above signs, but if he’s doing most of them, then chances are pretty great that he wants to change your status from “single” to “in a relationship.”

Why a Guy Ignores You When He Likes You & What To Do

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A woman being ignored by her boyfriendYou met a great guy. You start texting back and forth. You go out on a few dates, and the chemistry is really good between you.

It feels like things are going really well..!

Then one day he doesn’t respond back to your text.

A day or two passes…

You wait…

You wonder if he’s sick, or maybe worse.

You text him, “Hey! How it’s going?”

Hours later, maybe he texts you back with an empty message, like “Hey! I’m good.” But there are no definitive plans being made.

Another day passes, and more crickets…

You wonder, what is going on?

Things were moving in a positive direction. So what in the hell happened? Did he meet someone else? Is he playing games? Does he have cold feet?

Nothing is more confusing than when a guy starts ignoring you and doesn’t reply to your texts.

Here’s what to do about it when this happens to you.

Why He’s Ignoring You When He Actually Likes You

Things Were Moving Too Quickly

a sad woman staring at her phoneLove has a tendency to sneak up on us when we least expect it, and it can be overwhelming for a lot of guys, particularly those who were only looking for something casual.

Maybe your guy wasn’t expecting anything serious with you but now he realizes that his feelings are more legit, and he’s just not ready to give you what you want at this time.

So instead of owning up to this fact, the emotionally immature man will do the fadeout.

If this is the reason behind your guy’s stonewalling, relationship expert Adam LoDolce recommends giving him space so that you both can decide whether this relationship is worth pursuing.

If he’s into you, he’ll eventually move forward — or at least let you know where he’s at. If he doesn’t, then you have your answer and it might be time to stop texting him.

P.S. You deserve someone who can tell you that!

He’s Afraid of Rejection

Everyone’s got emotional baggage, which makes them act out in dysfunctional ways. Maybe he’s ignoring you because he’s scared that you’ll reject him.

It might not make sense to you, but to him, ignoring you is a way for him not to deal with the intimacy and vulnerability that connection brings. This way he can avoid the fear and pain of rejection from his past.

If you genuinely like him, you might ask him straight up how he feels about you and ask him why he’s been distant while sharing your own vulnerability. Hopefully, this will open up a dialogue that will further connect you.

See also: Signs you’re pushing him away

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He’s Busy (Really!)

As relationship expert Amy North, and creator of the Text Chemistry system, says in her YouTube video below, he could just be busy.

Life happens, and suddenly texting you back isn’t his biggest priority anymore. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you or isn’t interested — he’s got other things going on.

If that’s the case, North says to cut him some slack and give it a day or two. If he’s into you, he’ll text you soon!

Get The Same Attraction Texts Amy Uses Here

He’s Playing it (Too) Cool

Call it the male ego, but some guys don’t want to seem too eager.

Your guy might be super interested but he wants to play it cool for whatever reason. This is akin to playing games, so if this is the reason, you might want to put the brakes on this connection yourself. However, when we play “cool” with our bravado it’s often to shield a soft underbelly.

If you’re into him, you could get curious about his behaviour and call him out on it while reassuring him that you like him too.

Related article: What to do to keep a guy interested in the early stages

You Hurt His Feelings

This is a rare reason, says dating expert Brian Nox in his YouTube video below, “When a Man IGNORES You, here’s what he’s thinking.” But it does happen. So when a guy feels slighted by something that you said or did, he will retreat and lick his wounds, ignoring you in the process.

However, the reason for this will be clear to you, says Nox. Meaning, you won’t have to ask yourself, “What did I say?” Because you’ll know. So if you know you said or did something hurtful, reach out with a genuine apology. Too many relationships turn sour because an “I’m sorry” came too late.

You can see his short video here.

Final Thoughts

Being ignored doesn’t feel good. There are many reasons why a man who likes you might be ignoring you so try not to jump to conclusions.

If your feelings are legitimate for him, then it’s up to you to get curious about your guy’s behaviour.

Need a little help?

Check out North’s Text Chemistry system to get the exact text messages that make guys value their connection with you and want to text you back frequently.

No matter what happens, you deserve someone who will put you and your feelings first.

If he can be honest with what he’s feeling and thinking, then great! But if he can’t offer you a decent reason or explanation for his behaviour, or if he continues to ignore you, then it’s definitely time to move on.

20 Flirty Good Night Texts To Send Him & Why They Work

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a woman flirting over textSending goodnight texts to your new love interest is a sweet and flirty way of creating and maintaining connection and intimacy whether you’ve been dating for two weeks or two months, or are in a long-term relationship.

However, just sending a literal “Goodnight” text doesn’t make anyone feel the warm fuzzies inside. Which is why if you want to keep the spark alive between you, it helps to get a little creative with your goodnight text messages.

From flirty to sexy to sweet texts, there are many options to send to your love interest at your fingertips.

Need a little help? No sweat — here are 20 of the best examples of goodnight texts to help get you started.

20 Fun & Flirty Good Night Texts To Send Him

New Relationship Texts

If you want to stay on someone’s mind and ease the anxiety of early dating — because everyone wonders whether or not the person they’re dating is into them — then it’s a good idea to send a sweet-yet-simple goodnight text to your new squeeze.

Sending a “sweet dreams” message right before bedtime lets him know he’s the last person you’re thinking – and dreaming of which immediately cements a bond between you. Some examples to try tonight:

“I had a great time with you today. Have a great night, and can’t wait to see you again. :)”

“I hope you’re having a great night! Thinking of you. Nighty night!”

“Goodnight handsome! ;)”

“I hope you have sweet dreams and that all of them come true. Goodnight, cute person.”

See also: Make him want you with these texts

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Flirty Texts

Have you arrived at official relationship status? Sweet and flirtatious good night text messages are an easy way to let your lover know that you not only appreciate him but that you’re also still very much attracted to him.

As relationship expert Chris Vitale told Datzie when you reassure your guy that you’re into him, then his confidence immediately boosts and he will want to keep showing up for you. Plus, guys love it whenever you make dating fun. The less (unimportant) seriousness they have to deal with, the more they can relax and let their guard down to you. Why not try these flirty ones later?

“I can’t wait to fall asleep and dream of you tonight. Xx”

“My bed is so lonely without you. 🙁 Night night.”

“I’m imagining you lying next to me. Wish it was the real thing. Night, babe.”

“You’re probably getting ready for bed now…Just know that I’m thinking of you and only you. G’night sweetie.”

“Guess what? I’m wearing that cute nightie you love. Wish you were here to see it. Goodnight, babe.”

“Baby, I can’t sleep. I wish you were here to soothe me into slumberland…or maybe something naughtier. Miss your face. Night xo.”

See also: The secrets to flirting with a guy through text message

Naughty Texts

Sexy texts are a great way to deepen your intimacy with one another whether you’ve done the deed or not. They’re also particularly useful when you find yourself in a long-distance relationship, or if one of you is away on vacation or on a business trip. Try these to spice up your love:

“I wish you could hold me tonight…and then make love to me all morning long. Night, baby.”

“FYI: I’m sleeping naked tonight. And thinking of you. And doing…other things. Sweet dreams.”

“I just wanted you to know that I want you so badly right now, and I can’t wait to be naked with you. I’ll be dreaming dirty dreams of us tonight. Xxx”

“Hi, baby. I was just thinking of that time we did [fill in the blank] and how HOT that was. Good luck going to sleep now! HAHA! Night night. ;)”

“Miss me? [send sexy selfie] Sweet dreams, baby.”

Related article: Talking dirty to a guy over text – what you need to know

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Committed Relationship Texts

According to a YouTube segment with relationship and dating coach, Amy North, and creator of the Texting Chemistry System, men tend to feel underappreciated by the women in their lives, which is why sending your guy a text that lets him know you’re so grateful for him is a great way to send him into sweet slumber. Some examples:

“I love and appreciate having you in my life. Sweet dreams, baby.”

“Thank you so much for your help with [blank] today. Your support really means a lot to me. Have a good night! Love you!”

“I know this sounds a little corny but I’m really thankful that we met. You’re the best, and you make me smile. Love you, babe. Nighty night.”

“I don’t want to go to bed without telling you how amazing you are at [blank]. Seriously, you’re the best, and I’m so grateful you’re mine. Goodnight, and I love you lots!”

“I’m just re-reading our texts right now, and I’m smiling ear to ear. You make me so happy. Goodnight, baby.”

Final Thoughts

So now that you’re armed with a number of amazing and romantic texts, there’s no doubt that you’ll be sending your sweetheart off into slumber with dreams of you and only you.

If you really want to send him texts that get his heart pulse racing for you and make him think of you and only you then check out Amy North’s Texting Chemistry System. Amy has taught hundreds of women how to build attraction and intense feelings of love and connection through her cleverly crafter psychological text messages. You can watch the video below to find out exactly how she does it.


There are simply hundreds of fun and flirty goodnight texts you can send him if you let your imagination run wild. However, by using Amy’s system you will be able to send text messages that speak directly to the pleasure centers in a man’s mind to trigger his attraction process for you.

How to Know When to Stop Texting a Guy

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woman trying to work out if she should stop texting a guyWhen you really like a guy, it’s hard to resist reaching out to him.

You see a funny GIF that cracks you up, you pass it along.

You know he has a nerve-wracking work presentation today, so you shoot him a “You got this!” text.

Basically, whenever he pops up in your mind (which is a lot), you always send him a little something.

While texting is a great way to connect with a new love interest, you definitely don’t want to come off as too clingy. Your enthusiasm might come from the right place but it could turn him off. So how do you know when to stop texting a guy?

Below are some of the most obvious signs that it’s time to take a break from pressing send. And if you need a little more help with texting, you also should check out dating expert Amy North’s Text Chemistry System, which will surely help get his attention in all the right ways.

7 Signs You Should Stop Texting a Guy

You Haven’t Heard From Him in A While

a woman wondering if she should stop texting a guyThis is probably the biggest red flag…

According to relationship expert, Debra Rogers, if he was blowing up your phone one minute but now all you’re hearing is crickets, then that’s a huge sign that not only should you stop texting but maybe it’s also time to say goodbye.

You deserve a guy who’s going to give you as much attention as you give him.

You Always Text Him First

While there isn’t any hard rule as to “who should text who first”, there should be a healthy back-and-forth with your communication. If you find that it’s always you who’s initiating the conversation, then that’s a sign that you need to take a step back.

Even if he responds to your text messaging, you should be with a guy who acts like he’s interested in you, too. And trust me – if a guy’s into you, he will text you as much as you text him.

See also: How guys text when they really like you

He Doesn’t Take the Conversation Anywhere

In order to maintain a connection, your communication needs to be insightful and interesting for both parties.

If he’s just replying with one-word answers to your text messaging and not asking you questions about yourself or doesn’t bother to steer the conversation forward, then Dating Tips 101 advises in this YouTube video below to stop texting him. It’s not solely your responsibility to keep the convo alive.

He Only Communicates With You Via Text

Yes, texting someone is super easy (a little too easy) when it comes to communication, but it shouldn’t be the only way you connect with your guy.

If he’s refusing to call you, or even make IRL plans to meet up with you, then that’s a huge sign that you should stop texting him.

You deserve a guy who wants to communicate with you intimately and in ways that will move the relationship forward.

See also: Ways to talk dirty through text

You’re Not Waiting For Him to Respond to Your Texts

“Double texting” is okay under certain circumstances, but it shouldn’t be the norm when you’re communicating with a new love interest.

Dating expert Amy North, who knows a thing or two about the texting and dating game, thanks to her Texting Chemistry program, advises that in the early days of dating, you should only text back a man after he responds to you. Otherwise, it can come off as desperate.

So, withhold from sending that third text in a row. Give him the space to respond to you. It’s only then when you’ll know just how interested he really is. So take a break from texting, and see what happens!

Amy has helped hundreds of women create a meaningful connection with guys and build the relationship they truly want to have through her methods. You can find out how she does it here.

See also: How to flirt with him over text message

He’s Avoidant When it Comes to Talking About the Future

Whether it’s making date plans for Friday night or talking about future plans in general, if he’s hesitant to confirm plans or he backs out at the last minute, then it’s time to stop texting him.

The truth is, he probably doesn’t see a future with you or want anything serious with you, and just doesn’t have the respect (or guts) to tell you the truth. Time to stop texting him!

a woman looking at her cell phone

Related article: What to text him to keep him interested in you

He Deleted You From Social Media

When a guy deletes you from social media, that’s a pretty big sign that he’s not interested in you and is either probably moving on with someone else, or just doesn’t want any sort of reminder of you, or both.

It’s a pretty harsh reality check, yes, but it’s also a clear message that he’s not worthy of your time – or texts – anymore.

Final Thoughts

If you’re experiencing any of the above signs, then you owe it to yourself to stop texting this guy. Because here’s the thing: it’s only when you stop texting him that you will know just how interested he is.

When you stop texting him and see what happens, you’ll know what his true intentions are. If he’s right for you, he’ll text back. And if he doesn’t? Then you know he wasn’t the right guy for you.

And if you need more tips on how to effectively text the man who is worthy of you? Then check out Amy North’s Text Chemistry System. You’ll never have to second guess your texting game again.

Double Texting & Second Texts – 5 Simple Rules to Play it Cool

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a woman realising that she sent a double textYou really like someone. And when you like someone, you want to naturally connect with them. So, in our modern dating world, that means, of course, texting.

While texting seems like a pretty easy way of communicating with our new crushes (sometimes a little too easy) because there are no hard and fast rules to it, there isn’t a set-upon etiquette of how to use texts “properly’ when it comes to dating.

However, one big No-No to avoid in the early stages of dating is “double texting.”

If you’re not familiar with double texting, it’s basically what it sounds like: it’s sending two text messages in a row to the same person (your crush) without waiting for them to respond back.

For some, receiving a double text is a big red flag.


Because sending a bunch of blue messages can come across as too excitable and/or needy, especially in the early courtship days.

Instead, you want to come across as interested but not too interested, you dig?

Here are some basic rules when it comes to the double text so you can let them see your best self.

(P.S. if you need more help, then check out the Text Chemistry system by renowned relationship coach, Amy North. Her system teaches women how to create a strong sense of connection and attraction with guys through text messages.)

Double Texting Rules You Need To Know

woman looking at cell phoneOnly Double Text If You Have a Good Reason

Texted a funny GIF and haven’t heard back in a day? Then chill your jets.

Eric Resnick, a dating coach and founder of Profile Helper told Elite Daily, said don’t do it unless you have very good reason to do so. Otherwise, he says, doing so only reads as a desperate move. But if you have something concrete to say, like, you’ll be late for your date or how much you’re looking forward to seeing them, then it’s all good to send the second text.

Consider What He’s Doing

There are a number of reasons why guys don’t answer text messages (which, by the way, is their least favourite method of communicating).

He could be at work. He could be at the gym. He could be out with his friends.

As Adam LoDolce says in his video about “7 Texting Mistakes that Turn Guys Off,” dating and texting is a patience game.

Wait it out.

Before you send a double text, stop for a second and consider that he’s probably genuinely busy and needs some space.

Realizing that his life doesn’t revolve around responding to your messages ASAP while also knowing that his response, or lack thereof, doesn’t necessarily reflect his feelings should help ease your mind (and control your fingers).

Just, let him come to you. It feels better.

You can check out Adam’s video here.

See also: Texting him to keep him interested

Don’t Get Passive Aggressive

If you haven’t heard back from your crush after a few hours (or days), Molly Fedick, editor-of-chief of Hinge’s advice blog, IRL, told Quartz that you want to refrain from playing petty games like sending passive-aggressive comments in order to get their attention.

So no “Where’d you go?” or “You’re a terrific conversationalist.” Just let it go until they respond. If they don’t, well, then that’s your answer. Move on.

See also: Ways to flirt with him over text

Why Are You Sending a Double Text?

Is it out of fear and anxiety?

Do you feel he’s about to ghost you?

Do you question the validity of his feelings?

Sending a text out of fear is never a good idea. It only comes across as needy and projects a bad vibe that he can definitely sense. If you have genuine concerns about your relationship, then your best bet is to refrain from a double text, wait another day to process your feelings, and call him.

Communicate your feelings.

From there, you can talk through what each one of you needs from your texting habits, and see how you can put one another at ease.

See also: Send him these good night text messages

a couple texting each other

See also: How to talk dirty to him with text messages

How Long Have You Been Dating?

When in doubt, consider how long you’ve been dating this guy. If he hasn’t replied back after your first date, and it’s been at least two to three days, then most likely he’s not interested, so you might as well skip the double text.

If you’ve been dating for a few months, then that’s a different story. He knows your texting patterns and you know his.

By now, there shouldn’t be any worry about who texted last or who didn’t. And if he’s freaked out by a double text after dating a few weeks? Then you might want to tell him, “bye-bye”.

Dating is stressful enough without being concerned about sending a double text to your boyfriend.

Final Thoughts

Bottom line: dating is hard, and worrying about double texting can make it worse.

While you definitely want to come across as your best self to a potential new love interest, you also want to remain true to yourself.

By following the above rules, you’ll feel more in control about your dating life, and therefore more confident.

Need more help? Then be sure to check out the Text Chemistry system by relationship coach, Amy North.

And if you want to send a double text because you really like this guy and feel good and secure about it? Then, by all means, go for it.

When it’s right between two people, there are no steadfast rules when it comes to matters of the heart.

How Guys Text When They Like You – 7 Things They Do Differently

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a guy texting sitting on a benchBe honest: how much time do you spend trying to decipher texts from your new crush?

It can be hard to figure out if a guy is into you, especially during the early stages of getting to know someone.

Texting replaces tone, so sometimes you have to read between the lines and the emojis.

While every guy has a different texting style, they do text similarly when they’re into someone.

While they might not want to show all of their cards right away, there are a few commonalities that guys tend to use when they’re into you.

If you’re not sure whether your new match likes you, here’s how to tell through his texting.

See also: Texting Method – Make Him Want You

7 Texting Things Guys Do When They Like You

They Text You “Good Morning”

Did you wake up to a good morning text from your new guy? That’s a good sign he’s into you.

Dating expert and matchmaker Susan Trombetti told Cosmo magazine that a good morning text from a guy is “just the appropriate amount of flirting for the start of a new relationship.”

Think about it: if a guy is sending you a good morning text, then you must be the first thing he thinks about as soon as he wakes up.

Yep, he’s definitely into you.

He Asks a Lot of Questions

If a guy is into you, he’s going to want to know as much as he can about you.

From asking about your favorite food to your favorite movie to what was the best thing about your day, a guy who is into you will want to know it all.

Asking questions builds a connection between you, and is a surefire sign that he wants to get closer to you.

a guy reading a flirtatious text message on his cell phone

Related article: Flirting with a guy on text

He Sends Long, Detailed Messages

Guys generally don’t communicate a lot via texting. In fact, when it comes to messaging their friends and family, less is more.

Which means if a guy is sending you long, detailed paragraphs in response to your questions, even if it was about his day, then you can bet that he likes you.

Certified counsellor Jonathan Bennett told Bustle that when a man sends you a novel-like message almost every time he texts you, then not only does he feel a connection to you, but it also means you’ve become a priority in his life.

Think about it: typing long messages can be tedious and time-consuming. So if he’s taking the time to explicitly fill you in on his life, he’s into you.

Check Out Amy North’s Text Chemistry System Here

He’s Not Afraid to Text You First

When a guy likes you there are no guessing games when it comes to who should text who first. That’s because an interested guy won’t hesitate to connect with you no matter how busy his day might be.

He’s so excited to hear from you that he doesn’t even want to wait for you to push send – he’s already on it.

On a similar note, a guy who likes you will reply back to you ASAP.

Bennet told Bustle: “This shows that the other person is excited to receive your messages and wants to keep the conversation going. It demonstrates that answering you is a priority, even above and beyond other commitments.”

woman on a cell phone

See also: Talking dirty to a guy over text message

They Seem Concerned About You

A guy who’s into you will be naturally concerned about your well-being. If you mentioned that you’re under the weather, he will ask how you’re feeling. He might even offer to cook you chicken soup.

Other signs he cares about you: texting you to make sure you’ve arrived home safely after your date or if you’re away on vacation, he will check in if your plane/train/bus has arrived at your destination safely. Any sign that he cares is a good sign.

He Texts “I Wish You Were Here”

According to dating expert Amy North, a guy who’s interested in you might text you, “I wish you were here.”

This insightful message means that not only is he thinking about you but he also thinks that being with you will make things better wherever he’s at and he misses you. (However, North adds this isn’t a good sign if he’s texting you from his bed late at night or at the strip club.)

See also: Texting a guy to keep him interested

couple laughing and texting

He Wants to Impress You

North also says that when a guy sends you texts boasting about all the awesome things he’s doing – whether it’s winning a soccer tournament or going to a fun event with his buddies – he’s not typically bragging — he just wants to convey how fun and interesting a person he is to you.

In short, he wants to impress you. If you’re curious to learn more about the texting habits of guys and how to attract a guy through texting, then you’ll want to check out Amy North’s Text Chemistry System.

Final Thoughts

So now that you know what to look for in a guy’s text, scroll through your recent messages with your new guy.

If he’s texting you novellas about his awesome day and telling you how much he wishes you were there with him, you can rest assured he’s into you.

To know exactly what to text back to get him to ask you out or commit to you in a relationship, send him one of Amy’s recommended texts here.

The Secret To Making a Guy Want You Through Text – Text Chemistry Review

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The Text Chemistry course by Amy NorthThere is no doubt, we all have problems in relationships from time to time. Someone left us, hurt us or, maybe, just didn’t even notice us…

Nobody wants to go through this again.

However, there indeed are things that could help us not to repeat our mistakes.

Learning from them is important, but what if you gave your best, but every time got a disappointing result? Don’t worry, there are solutions, and I am here to offer one that has helped hundreds of other women just like you and me.

It’s a product created by Amy North. It is called Text Chemistry.

Firstly, I want to inform you that this is only my humble opinion, added to collected opinions of other people who tried it and that if it works for me or someone else, it doesn’t mean that It will work for you as well. It all depends on how you use and implement the material that Amy will teach you.

If you take action as she says then you are far more likely to get the results you are looking for.

When relationships with people are in question, nothing is certain. That is why I think that, because everybody is unique, it’s important to get informed about how relationships work, in any case.

Before any purchase, you should read reviews from others first. I will make sure that, with this review, you get to know everything you need before you decide to buy Text Chemistry, for all your own reasons.

So, my review will contain overall information about the Text Chemistry program, what it contains and why I think it is a good investment. So, what actually is Text Chemistry..?

About Text Chemistry & Creator – Amy North

Text Chemistry logoText chemistry is a 50-thousand-word e-book and guide, created by Amy North, as a solution to get men’s attention through text messaging.

At the core of Amy’s product are simple but powerful “desire” text messages to get a man to fall in love with you and commit.

There is also a thirteen-part ‘live person’ video series and three additional bonus ebooks in PDF format, each thirty to forty pages in length and one audio interview. This audio interview is an unadvertised bonus that is included as a surprise when you buy Text Chemistry.

So, the product is the primary Text Chemistry book with additional videos and extra bonus ebooks about all kinds of problems that can occur in a relationship, and the solutions for them.

One of the main benefits of the videos is that they help to explain some of the core chapters in the book more thoroughly and give more understanding.

By now, you may be wondering what the additional bonuses are about. I will explain them in more detail in this review, so stay with me through this guide.

As mentioned earlier, the creator of this program is Amy North. She is a dating coach and relationship expert for women from Vancouver, Canada. Amy is very popular in her field of work and now a sought after coach.

Text Chemistry is different than other books about dating and is perfect for the modern world of dating. Everybody is using dating apps now, which you cannot learn about from older books.

Dating apps and meeting online: love it or hate it, this is the future of modern dating. There is no doubt about that. This is a core reason why “how” you text someone can play a very important role in your relationship, especially in the early stages.

This program is here to teach you exactly how you should text men in order to get his immediate attention and draw him to you.

It is well known that men and women think very differently when it comes to dating, love and relationships. Couple this with the fact that text messaging is now at the core of all forms of communication and problems can easily arise.

It is ‘especially’ easy to cause misunderstandings or give an unintended impression through your texts. This is mainly because we cannot see the other person, read their body language or feel their emotion.

Have you ever sent a guy a well-meaning text message only to either get a storage reply back from him or worse yet, no reply at all?

It’s likely that you communicated something to him that he either misunderstood or simply turned him off.

This guide can help you to not only keep any man interested in you but also it is aimed to make him become crazy about you.

I am not only talking about men that you are already in a relationship with, although it can help in these cases, too. I am talking about literally any man that you can think of.

If you think it’s impossible, that’s understandable, but a lot of women claim that this guide has helped them in many different ways.

Amy has spent a considerable amount of time researching the nature of peoples’ relationships and this is the ultimate result of her work.

How does Text Chemistry work?

woman reading a dirty text message from her loverAmy’s techniques aim to stimulate a man’s “psychological triggers” by simply writing a few cleverly crafted text messages. Using her course, you will know exactly what to send him. Some women claim that it works even on the most uninterested men.

With these “attention hooks’, you get a man constantly thinking about you. You can even choose what kind of attention you want to acquire. However, it depends on the situation that you are in, of course.

This guide is put together in a simple and concise way, so you will not get lost in the content. I will explain more about the content later in this review, so keep please reading!
I will also explain in a bit more detail how and why Amy’s methods are so effective. It primarily comes down to the psychological strategies used that trigger a man’s desire process for a woman.

What results can Text Chemistry it bring?

This product has the potential to bring men into your life. It can attract new ones, or make the old ones miss you and want to get you back. Or, on the contrary, it can help to re-ignite a burnt-out flame in your existing relationship.

The course is also a time saver when it comes to dating as you won’t need to constantly go out in search of a guy. After all, there are times when we just don’t feel like going out for a guy.

Everything is digital here. With a few simple text messages, he will start to pay more attention to you, and moreover, you will start to be always on his mind.

Not only can this course help you to attract men, but it can also help boost your confidence in the dating scene and in your relationships.

Amy will also teach you about all the different types of men you can interact with. You will learn how to properly talk to each of them.

Text Examples & Content

As I said, there are thirteen videos, the main book, three additional bonus books and an interview.

The content is very informative and straight to the point. Let’s briefly go through some of the types of messages and phrases that you will learn to use and send in order to make a man instantly obsess over you.

The first part of the book is an introduction; Here you will learn information about Amy North and the chapters about sending text messages in general: Why you have been having trouble getting men interested or staying interested in you, the most common texting mistakes women are making, and so on.

Later, you will be introduced to the different types of messages, such as;

  • E-Glow texts
  • Satellite texts
  • Crystal Ball texts
  • Ready to Take Off texts
  • Shooting For The Stars texts
  • Game On texts
  • Supanova texts
  • Seduction texts

For example, there are “E-Glow” messages, or, if you want to get your ex back, there are “Satellite” text messages that can make him badly regret leaving you.

The “Crystal Ball” text message will help you to send subliminal messages to him in order to psychologically change his opinions and decisions.

These “Satellite” and “Crystal Ball” text messages are a part of a bigger chapter, called “Ready to Take Off” – they also help with what to send in the early stages of your relationship.

You will get to know a technique of reading between the lines of his messages and figure out what he truly thinks about you.

The “Shooting For The Stars” part is all about the dating phase. This is the time when he is hooked in with you, but there is still a lot more work to do if you want to keep him interested.

You will learn how to use “Game On” and “Supernova” messages to shake him and make him feel those nervous butterfly feelings even when he is not around you. These are not the only ones included in these chapters, of course, there are more.

The last part of the book is dedicated to the relationships in the long run and keeping the energy ablaze. “E-Glow”, “Seduction” texts and other ones are included in this chapter.

Apart from these specialized ones, you will get tips on how to interpret his messages, how to send a proper picture to him to make him dream about you at night, or how to make him reply to everything you say to him.

If your relationship has become stale and boring, you have special phrases which can re-light the flame once again. There are also phrases to help you to get him to propose or make him miss you.

woman sending naughty text to a guy

Text Chemistry Benefits


The eBook is 100% compatible with all devices and can be viewed on a PC, Mac, Smartphone, iPad or other tablets. Also, it’s available in many formats, such as PDF, ePUB, and MOBI formats;

There is no shipping; everything is 100% confidential & anonymous. There is nothing to come to your door because all materials are delivered electronically. Your privacy is respected and there is no need to worry about whether someone will find out that you need help with relationships.

Since everything is online, you get immediate access to all the materials available.

When you buy Text Chemistry, you get bonus materials, E-books called “Phone Game”, “Why Men Leave”, and “Quality Men on Tinder”. They are completely free and each contains about 30-40 pages. You also get an unadvertised bonus, which is an audio interview.

To ensure your trust, you are offered a refund of the full purchase price if you decide this guide isn’t for you. You get a 60-day guarantee. You just need to send an email to request it.

It’s affordable for anyone. It’s much less expensive than other programs. It’s really worth the money.

a guy reading a flirtatious text message on his cell phone


Due to the privacy policy, you will have to print the book if you want a hard copy.

Also, a good internet connection and access to the internet could be helpful as well, since this guide is only in digital form. So, if you have all-day access to the internet, you won’t have any problems whatsoever.

If you are impatient, you can be disappointed. Remember that this is not a pile of magic tricks that can rejuvenate your man with a whoosh. just a bit of your patience is needed for you to see the incredible and life-changing results.

Some people say it’s not ethical, and it is a way of manipulation. As the techniques are so powerful, it is too easy for a woman to manipulate a man into feelings of strong attraction.

Final Thoughts

Overall, this product gets a thumbs up! While it is not for everyone, hundreds of women have found it to be the missing piece to attracting a guy and getting him to commit.

I can only share the information from my point of view, and the only way to know whether this will work for you is to try it. Fortunately, the 60-day money back guarantee allows women to try the product risk-free to see if it is right for them.

Of course, you will need to be patient at first while you become skilled in sending effective text messages that communicate to a man’s inner desires.

Don’t forget that all men are different and that you need time to learn everything that this guide offers. Rome wasn’t built in a day, they say. But once you “build it”, any man will come to you.

Imagine finally being happy with a true sense of fulfilment in your love life. Sounds great, doesn’t it? With expert help from coach Amy North, this can be a possibility.

The author is a famous relationship coach. Unlike authors of other products, she really is an expert. Therefore, you have the piece of mind that you are learning good information that can really help to improve your love life.

Give it a try to see if it is for you. With the 60-day money back guarantee, you have nothing to lose.

I hope this Text Chemistry review has been helpful to you, and that I helped you to decide whether to buy Text Chemistry, for all your own reasons.

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5 Tips To Up Your Texting Game

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couple having fun textingTexting. We all do it. It’s instant, accessible 24/7 communication that also includes cute emojis – what could go wrong?

Well, unfortunately, plenty.

For many of us, we worry about what to text, when to text, the length of the text, and how much, or how little, should we flirt?

In the dating game, we want to build a memorable connection with the new cutie in our life, and since we’re all practically glued to our smartphones, text messaging is one of the most immediate ways we can do that with someone.

While there are no hard rules for texting, there are some simple tips that will help you stand out from the crowd and make texting less stressful and more fun.

Top Tips To Improve Your Texting Game

Be Positive with Your Texting

For a recent blog post on texting etiquette, dating coach and relationship expert, Amy North said that it’s important to keep your text messages positive.

Texting can be confusing at times because we can’t hear someone’s tone of voice, she says, which means it’s better to err on the side of keeping things light.

If you don’t know each other well, it’s especially important to keep things playful because you don’t know their texting style yet.

When in doubt, throw in an exclamation mark or a friendly emoji. And if you want to know more, you should check out North’s highly acclaimed program, Text Chemistry. It’s a highly effective system to attract a guy through texting, and certainly worth checking out if you crave more of a deep dive into the art of texting.

Don’t Forget to Flirt a Little (or a Lot!)

Don’t forget that texting is a perfect little tool for flirting with him.

Maybe you want to add a little anticipation for your weekend date. Shooting a message like;

“I can’t wait to see you on Friday night!” ? with a little heart-faced emoji can ignite his passion and yearning for you.

Maybe you’re thinking about him (which you probably are), so let him know!

Dating is supposed to be fun, so don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and spice things up a bit. Throw in that winking emoji and express your playful side.

If you’re really wanting to ramp things up to the next level and get his pulse racing for you then check out Amy North’s attraction text messages here.

a guy reading a flirtatious text message on his cell phone

See also: Ways to talk dirty to your boyfriend over text message

Be a Gamechanger (Because You’re Valuable!)

Anyone who’s ever received a “hey” text knows how boring that is, which is why dating expert Matthew Hussey says to refrain from using dry text messages that don’t really say anything at all.

In his video, “3 Texting Secrets Men Can’t Resist,” Hussey says it’s important to add value to your text messages so that your intended recipient looks forward to your messages and appreciates hearing from you, which, in turn, means he appreciates you.

So, what is value?

Hussey suggests sending a funny picture or a GIF of a private joke between you.

Maybe you send a snap of the place where you went out on your first date or a link about his favorite band. Anything that instils connection.

You can catch Matt’s video here.

See also: Make him want you with text messages

Ask Engaging Questions

You want to refrain from the “how was your day” or “how are you” messages. Why? Because it’s so easy to glance over a text and/or respond with one-word answers, which don’t move a relationship forward.

Instead, get more curious and initiate a conversation that’s engaging and interesting for both of you.

Instead, ask, “what’s the best thing that’s happened to you today” or “what’s your biggest goal this week?” and further cement your connection.

Avoid Using the Word “Just” and Instead Hype Yourself Up

woman reading a dirty text message from her loverThe word “just” is one of those little words that you might not think too much about, but which actually speak volumes about your confidence.

Dating and relationship coach Mat Bogs wrote that texting someone, “Just checking in” or “Just wondering what you’re up to” screams unworthiness and neediness.

If you’re going to send someone a text, you should be deliberate and confident about it.

Instead of “just checking in,” he suggests sending something like, “Want to do something fun tonight?” or “I want to check out this new art exhibit with a few friends. Wanna join?” It shows your new crush you’re not afraid to take charge a little and you’re confident with who you want (and you want him, right?).

Final Thoughts

Text messaging doesn’t have to be anxiety-riddled or fruitless. In fact, when you keep it positive and confident while adding value to your new love (and maybe an emoji or two), you can help develop a deeper connection.

Now that you have a number of amazing texting tips at your fingertips, it’s time to get typing!

While you don’t have to try every item on the list for your first message, try out the one that feels the most natural to you right now.

If you really want to ramp up his attraction for you then check out these testing tips by Amy North.

Before you know it, your texting game will be on fire – just like your love life.

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