So you met a guy and everything seemed to be going well between you. Or, at least that’s what you thought.
Then, as quickly as it had started it was all over and he was gone from your life.
We all know that when it comes to love and relationships, men and women think very differently. Anything from how to behave on the first date to when to sleep together, the perspectives are usually very different.
However, when a guy starts to pull away from a woman it’s usually for a very specific reason.
In this article, I am going to tell you about three BIG Mistakes that women are making that cause their man to pull away.
If you’re in a hurry and you just want to skip straight to the solution then watch this short demonstration video by relationship coach, Amy North. In this video, Amy shows you how to trigger a state of desire in a man’s mind more powerful than love.
While no two guys are exactly alike, they all have the same internal processes that cause them to feel states of connection, fascination, desire, lust and even love.
Once you know how to trigger these states of mind in your man at will, he will never want to leave you.
Now, without further ado, here are three BIG mistakes women make that push guy away.
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3 Mistakes Women Make That Cause a Guy To Pull Away
A clingy woman is one thing that I almost guaranteed to make a guy run for the hills.
Of course, it’s a good thing to show your affection to your man and let him know he’s on your mind. However, too much or too often too soon will make him feel smothered.
Eventually, he will want to regain his independence and that’s when he will start pulling away.
Don’t let him know that you have fallen for him too quickly. At the start of a relationship, men are always looking for fun and basically, just wanting to enjoy your company.
If you let him know that you’re already planning for the future, you will scare him away.
Whatever you do, remain cool, calm and collected.
If he senses that you want more from him than what he is willing to offer, he will eventually start pulling away from you.
Research has shown that a staggering 97% of women are unhappy with her body at least once every day. However, you shouldn’t show your insecurities to your man if you are in a new relationship.
Yes, you can relax and talk about your gym routine or your healthy eating habits with him. Just keep the insecurities under wraps until the two of you are really close. However, even then, you do not want them to come into your relationship too much or it will likely put him off.
If you are constantly asking him if you look fat or nagging whenever he talks to an attractive woman, then you’re running the risk of ruining your own relationship. Once your insecurities come out in the open, there is no turning back.
Don’t push him away with your self-doubts. Rather, you should show him how happy and in love with life you and he will soon become more drawn to you.
Here’s a good trick to get started. Pretend that every date you go with your man is actually your first one. On your first date, you would never let him see the bad things about you. You need to be confident about yourself and he will sense it too.
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Showing Him You’re Unhappy Without Him
Yes, you might be happy when your man is around but after a while, he will also be able to sense the negativity if you go flat when he is not in the room.
If he finds out that he is the sole reason you are happy, he will eventually start pulling away.
This is because he will feel pressured to make you happy, which is not attractive to any guy.
It’s actually a huge responsibility for anyone, so don’t put that on him.
Rather than making him your sole source of happiness, you need to make the most out of your life.
Start by doing the things you love. If you are making yourself happy, you will not depend on him to remain content. Actually, it’s a good way to improve your relationship. Guys are attracted to women who have a passion outside of their relationship.
It can be playing the piano, singing, cycling or rock climbing. It doesn’t matter. If you have something else in your life besides him that makes your heart sing then he will love you all the more for it.
If you’ve read this far then you probably need as much insight as possible into what causes guys to pull away. I highly recommend you watch this short video by relationship coach, Amy North.
Here she tells you what causes guys to pull away from you and exactly what you need to do to spark a state of desire in him that will make him want to stick to you like glue. You can watch the video here.