4 Powerful Steps To Get Him Back…Fast!

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Last Updated on June 22, 2021

a romantic couple making a heart shape with thier handsHere at the American Dating Society, we know many of you are dealing with a breakup or are still struggling to get over a breakup from the past. That’s why we teamed up with a gifted relationship and family therapist named Jane Lu to help bring you her amazing strategy for helping to get your partner back quickly or to empower you to get over the breakup and move on with your life a stronger woman.

Here we introduce you to Jane Lu an let you know how you can discover her powerful techniques to put you back in control of your life and become the empowered woman you know deep down you could always become, once and for all.

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So Who Is Jane Lu?

Jane Lu
Jane Lu – Certified Marriage & Family Therapist Intern

Jane Lu is a Certified marriage and family therapist intern and has years of experience helping individuals, couples and families with all kinds of relationship issues. Through her experience, she has developed a system that brings a 95% success rate for the clients she works with. Through her dedication and years of experience, Jane is now ready to take her marriage and family therapy license exam.

For more than 6 years, Jane has worked on a one-to-one basis, with couples and even in groups on various topics to help them rebuild their lives and develop the skills they need in order to transform into powerful individuals in charge of their life. Besides this, Jane also helps people develop strong communication skills to improve their relationships.

As if this wouldn’t keep her busy enough, Jane is also a Certified holistic health coach, Spiritual Healer and has worked for over 10 years as a children’s social worker providing counselling, mentoring and guidance to those in need of her help. Jane uses her skills as a therapist to further help and empower her clients.

Through Jane’s working and life experience, she has found that one of the primary causes of broken relationships is due to a lack of or poor communication skills between people.

Jane also found another key ingredient – being true to yourself – Jane found that when a person was not being true to themselves their relationship with themselves and others also suffered.

Therefore, Jane focusses on truth and communication to improve relationships.

How Jane Can Help You

With so many people in need of Jane’s help, it is impossible for her to work with everyone one-to-one. We’re aware that many of our readers are particularly seeking help with breakup issues so we decided to team up and assist Jane in getting her powerful coaching across to a wider audience, and primarily to our readers and subscribers. That’s why we helped Jane put her techniques together with an easily accessible course that you can follow along to within the privacy of your own home and at a pace that’s right for you without having to pay expensive counselling or therapy fees. In fact, we wanted to make Jane’s course so accessible, it is currently less than the cost of an evening meal.

When you truly know what you want you will then have a path. One of Jane’s primary goals is to empower you to become a master of your own life. When you have clarity and empowerment, others will treat you with the respect and love that you deserve.

In her course, Jane also hits home on the importance of loving yourself. Once you love yourself you will then have a clearer idea of what it is you truly want in a relationship.

What’s In Jane Lu’s Course?

Jane’s course is called ‘How She Win’s Him Back‘ and is comprised of two parts.

Part one: Part one is an eBook version for those who are wanting to dip their toe in to see if Jane’s course is right for them.

Part two: For those who are needing a step by step ‘playbook’ of exactly what to do, part two is a full video members area which includes Jane’s powerful 4 step method to get your partner back. In the member’s area, we’ve also included a 30min relationship Q&A session that we recorded with another relationship expert who you may have seen elsewhere on American Dating Society, Avelon B McNae. We recorded this webinar with Avelon in 2017 and it’s gotten some great feedback.

Members of the full course also benefit from our helpful audio series which are designed to help you find peace of mind with where you’re at in your relationship or breakup.

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What Is The 4 Step Method?

Through her years of experience and coaching, Jane Lu has devised a clear-cut, four-step approach to bring powerful results. These steps are;

Step1: Situation Clarity. In the first step, Jane delves into the very important question of understanding whether it’s time to move on or to try to get him back. Jane takes you through an effective step-by-step process where she helps you get situation clarity so you can make the right decisions that are best for your life. By doing this you will be able to more easily separate your emotions from the situation so you can gain situation clarity.

Step2: Self (Feeling) Clarity. In step two, Jane goes straight for the jugular and addresses the subject of when and how you can know that the time is right to either move on or start the process to get your ex back. With this technique, Jane teaches you how to effectively examine your feelings so you can make a decision from the heart that will ultimately be the best choice for you.

In this video, Jane shows you how you can reassess your emotions as you see your situation more clearly. From here, you are then taken through the process of understanding your emotions better to see if your emotions have changed as you see your situation differently. From here, you will then clearly be able to see your next move in the situation.

Besides helping you to gain clarity on your situation and feelings, this video also helps you to understand yourself on a deeper level, which can also benefit other areas of your life.

Step 2 is so powerful and not only allows you to arrive at the right answer for you, it also helps you to see once and for all if the relationship is worth your effort and how to tell if your feelings and desire for him are real.

Step3: Testing The Water. This step is all about your ex’s feelings towards you and testing the waters. This video will give you a better understanding of your ex’s feelings towards you and will help you to clearly see if there is a possibility of the two of you getting back together.

First, Jane delves into your ex’s current situation and his feelings towards you. Once you have found out his feelings towards you using Jane’s techniques, you can then see clearly if it is a good idea to initiate some form of contact. Jane then helps you to communicate with him in order to get the information you need to draw a conclusion about what you want to do from here.

Have you been asking yourself, your friends or even Google, questions like Does he still loves me? Does he still think about me? Does he miss me? Can I get him back? If so, then you’ll be able to answer all these questions for yourself once you’ve gone through Step3 of Jane’s course.

Step4: Fork In The Road. This video is all about moving forward and what you should do from this point. From this point change now must occur in order for you to continue moving forward in a happy and healthy way. Jane highlights a very important quote in this video to illustrate her point;

“If you change nothing, then nothing will change.”

From here, Jane explains that one of two outcomes will emerge from talking to your ex. Once you know what these two possibilities are and you have followed steps one, two and three to find out which one will be relevant to your situation, Jane explains what you need to do for each of the possibilities.

What Results Can I Expect?

Jane’s program is designed for you to go through in your own time, however, Jane feels it is best to take it step-by-step and watch one video per week so you can absorb the information and complete the tasks Jane asks you to do in each module. However, it is possible to watch all the videos in a week. Regardless, you will want to review each video several times over the coming weeks in order to get the most out of the program.

American Dating Society Seal Of ApprovalIf you are following the course correctly then you should start to see changes in your perspective, your understanding and also your feelings after the first week.

How She Wins Him Back is a powerful program that gets the ‘American Dating Society Seal Of Approval‘. This course will help you to go from stuck in a breakup and trying to put the pieces back together to turning the tables to create a loving, stable relationship, either with your ex or moving on to something new and better for yourself.

Once a person has been through this course they will be able to more easily see their sub-conscious patterns that got them in the mess in the first place and then being able to untangle the issues and things that kept them stuck.

To get Jane’s How She Wins Him Back course, click here.

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