How To Attract a Scorpio Man

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Last Updated on June 22, 2021

a Scorpio manIf you’re wanting to discover how to attract a Scorpio man and you have your sights on one, then you need to know that Scorpio’s are no strangers to attention from the opposite sex.

Scorpios have great sexual magnetism and often attract the attention on potential lovers fairly easily. Therefore, be prepared not to be the only one who is after him.

When competing with other women, just remember that you don’t need to be the most beautiful and appealing woman in the world, you only need to be more appealing than your competition in order to attract a Scorpio man.

While most women leave the dating game to chance, when it comes to attracting a Scorpio guy, you need to show your confidence and indirectly let him know you are interested in him. However, being to forward with a Scorpio can make him lose interest in you.

Scorpio’s are known as the most sexual but also the most mysterious sign in the zodiac. Because of this, a Scorp can be very difficult to figure out. That’s why relationship astrologer, Anna Kovach created the ultimate guide to attracting a Scorpio man, getting him to commit and making him fall in love. You can find out more about Anna’s guide here.

Attracting a Scorpio Man – How To Make Him Want You

Scorpio’s love to solve a mystery

the scorpio zodiac signScorpio’s love intrigue! Use this to help attract the man of your dreams. Scorpios also find those who are mysterious to be more fascinating and intriguing as they love to try to figure a person out.

When you first meet a Scorpio, do not reveal everything there is about yourself and your life straight away. Scorpios love to find things out over time. It makes you seem like you have more depth to your character.

So if you have tickled his curiosity, he will start to feel drawn to you to find out what you are all about.

Scorpios love the process of digging up information and solving complex puzzles. This is why it is vital to shroud yourself in mystery in the early stages of getting to know him. If you do not do this, a Scorpio man will quickly lose interest and move on to the next mysterious woman that he meets.

To get a Scorpios interest you really need to captivate and enchant him. You only get one real chance with a Scorpio, so if you don’t want to lose him to another woman, you may want to take the advice of renowned astrologer and Scorpio expert, Anna Kovach.

If you manage to get a Scorpio man to agree to a date with you, suggest something that has an element of mystery to it such as visiting a historical and mysterious place or perhaps even a museum.

By being a little mysterious yourself, he will find it impossible to stay away from you. It is, of course, important to remember that you must be completely honest with anyone you are dating.

Absolutely, under no circumstances invent things about yourself to make you appear more attractive to the Scorpio. If you get together for any length of time, then the tall tales will eventually be found out.

No one wants to be around a liar! If a Scorpio finds out that you have lied or been dishonest about who you are, he will leave faster than you can blink your eyes.

Honesty is important to a Scorpio

When it comes to matters of the heart, honesty is always the best policy. Even a little white lie can ruin your chances of a relationship with a Scorpio in the early stages.

This sign finds it tough to forgive and forget once they are lied to and they will judge your character on your honesty. Scorpio men will generally assume they are no longer able to trust you if you are caught in a lie.

You may think you can get away with telling a little white lie here and there; however, you should know that Scorpios have the uncanny way of sniffing out a lie.

If there are things in your past that you are not proud of, don’t try to cover them up. It is always best to be totally upfront and honest with a Scorpio because they will find out sooner or later. Scorpios respect women who are honest and hate those who lie and cheat.

However, if you can gain his trust and respect early on then you could be in with a good chance with him.

The importance of honesty for a Scorpio comes from a deep need themselves, to be truthful. Therefore, if he is not interested in going out with you, he will likely let you know quickly. On the plus side, at least he hasn’t wasted your time! If this is the case, then the best thing to do is accept it graciously, thank him for his honesty and move on.

Scorpio men like a woman with substance

Scorpios are attracted to are strong-minded and willful people. Therefore, never appears weak in the eyes of a Scorpio. You must show a male Scorpio that you can stand up for yourself and are not a weakling.

Scorpio men like women who are somewhat feisty and who are not afraid to give as good as she gets. Showing a guy that you have a backbone and will stand up for what you believe shows you have confidence and you are a person of principle. These qualities are very attractive to a Scorp.

Scorp’s enjoy a challenge

an attractive couple being close on the bedSex in any relationship is important; however, with a Scorpio, it is probably one of the most important aspects of a relationship. To pique the interest of a Scorpio, you should subtly let him know that you are also a sexual creature and enjoy being naughty in the bedroom.

Of course, you do not want to appear like a slut, so the best way to do this is to ‘innocently’ use the occasional sexual innuendo when you are talking to him or even sending him a text.

To discover the best ways to flirt with a Scorpio man over text, read our article, How to flirt with a guy over text in 10 sexy steps.

A Scorpio man will love this and start to wonder if your sexual connotation was deliberate or not. Either way, it will get him thinking sexually about you and the intrigue will drive him wild.

As Scorpios love a challenge, do not have sex with him too soon, or he may quickly lose interest. Use subtleness and dress provocatively when you are around him, leaving something to the imagination, and play hard to get, but don’t over-do it.

Almost all men enjoy the challenge of getting a woman to bed. If this is offered too soon, your Scorpio man may become bored. Instead, make him wait a little bit longer for sex.

Scorpio’s don’t find bossiness attractive

Never do or say anything that seems to challenge a Scorpio man’s control. Underneath that hard exterior, a Scorpio suffers from a number of insecurities; however, never let them know that you know this about him.

Scorpios love to maintain their power. They like to be in charge and will do this by sharing as little as possible to have the upper hand. If you pry into a Scorpio’s life or begin trying to boss him around, he will pull away from you, and there is a good chance he will lose interest.

If you notice that he is starting to go cold, read our article, Why men pull away to understand why he is doing this.

When it comes to Scorpios, you are playing with fire! Remember this and always keep things mysterious to keep him interested.

Respect a Scorpio man’s privacy

When trying to attract a Scorpio man, it is important to know that he will generally be a very private person and will not appreciate people prying into his personal life or asking too many personal questions.

When you are in conversation with the Scorpio, do not make him feel like you are observing him under the microscope and avoid being too direct with your questions. Scorpios can feel threatened if they feel like they are being analysed.

Scorpio’s love compliments

Scorpios like to feel appreciated just like any other sign, but do not over-compliment the Scorpio man, or he will be suspicious of your motives.

Too many compliments for a Scorpio can feel uncomfortable, or he may start to perceive you as being needy. Indirect compliments work best for this star sign.

By using an indirect compliment, you will be able to let him know of your interest in a more clever way. This will make him feel appreciated, let him know that you may be interested in him, and it will also make you stand out among all the other women who just fall at his feet.

Scorpio men love sex

a couple being intimate in bedThis is so important for Scorpio men that it has to be mentioned twice! Scorpios have a very close relationship to sex, more so than any other sign in the zodiac.

For the Scorpio, sex is as essential as breathing and he will want to be in a relationship with someone who feels the same way. This is very important to understand for a woman who is wanting to discover how to attract a Scorpio man.

Scorpios can be very adventurous between the sheets and enjoy trying new things and keeping the passion alive. For the Scorpio, if things become too mundane and routine in the bedroom then he can lose interest pretty quickly.

Due to the amount of attention that Scorpios often get from the opposite sex, they can usually be quite experienced when it comes to getting down to it. However, if you are not very experienced, yourself do not let this worry you.

Scorpios are often very considerate lovers who love to give just as much as they enjoy receiving. Even if you do not have much experience, you will still be able to turn him on by showing your adventurous and naughty side.

Astrologer Anna Kovach exposes exactly how a Scorpio man thinks about sex, love and relationships in her book, Scorpio Man Sextrology. She also tells you exactly what you need to know to be the best lover he’s ever had. You can learn her methods here.

See also: How To Talk Dirty To A Guy

Final Thoughts

There are many things to consider when it comes to attracting and dating a Scorpio man. These guys want to appear strong, even though they are quite sensitive underneath and can be insecure if they have not done much self-improvement work.

Trust and honesty is a core value for a Scorpio man, so never lie to him and do not give him any reason to think that you are a dishonest person.

Scorpio’s are known to be the most mysterious sign in the zodiac. Not only are they themselves mysterious, but they also love having a good mystery to solve. So, if you can position yourself as an intriguing mystery that a Scorpio man simply can’t resist unravelling as Anna Kovach shows here, then he will certainly chase you until he can make you his.

Scorpio’s are also the most sexual of zodiac signs. This does not mean that they are sex-mad. Rather, a Scorp uses sex as a way to deeply connect with his partner and express his true emotions. This is because he often finds it difficult to express his inner-most feelings with his words. Therefore, connecting sexually with a Scorpio man as Anna shows in her course, Scorpio Man Sextrology, is very important if you want the relationship to last.

If you are serious about catching your Scorpio man and you do not want to lose him to another woman that will undoubtedly be chasing him too, discover the secrets of the Scorpio male mind to break through his air of mystery and get him chasing you.

4 thoughts on “How To Attract a Scorpio Man”

  1. Hi im head over heels for this scorpio guy i love him a whole lot we recently had a baby i told him i love him he say he loves me and his daughter and weneva i wanna c him or he wanna c me he always come he stares at me with those glossy eyes and i just stare back and my heart just melt by the way ima sagittarius when we make love he stares into my eyes i wanna be in a loving committed relationship with him how can i get this man of my dreams to say yes ive been turning down men telling them im in love wit my scorpio man what pointers can i take

  2. I’m taking a risk here, I don’t normally do. I dated a Scorpio for a couple of months. We hit it off, but it moved WAY too fast. I made the mistake of pulling forward when he pulled away…we had a small argument and the whole thing started to fade away. We both let it die out, and here I am. I know we both messed up, and it’s possible this is all on him, but for some reason I can’t seem to let go. If I text he responds, but it’s always something about an inside joke we had about this or the other. I think he’s just being nice, but if there’s a chance we can get another shot…it just doesn’t seem like we got a fair shot…normally I’d walk away. This one…I just don’t know why but I can’t. Any ideas?

    • Sally, this got the ball rolling again, after my Scorpio man went AWOL on me. I texted him a picture of himself with a comment.. here’s the exact text: ” So.. just showing the girls.. a sexy Guy I know ( signed) Biz Convention , New Orleans, La.
      He replied in 35 minutes…here is text “How are you Jeanette hope you had a good New Year. Then my reply to that..was humble and a bit mysterious. Here is the text..”very well thank you. 2017 is going to be my year. May be in your area working next month.Best wishes to you (name). 20 minutes later I sent him a second text. “Oh, still miss those eyes by the way…”

  3. If you are not the cause of a break up… But it’s the scorpion man that wants you to feel like I’m the cause.. Should I allow him time to realize it’s him and not me.or just move on and persue my life and look at other resources

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