Sending goodnight texts to your new love interest is a sweet and flirty way of creating and maintaining connection and intimacy whether you’ve been dating for two weeks or two months, or are in a long-term relationship.
However, just sending a literal “Goodnight” text doesn’t make anyone feel the warm fuzzies inside. Which is why if you want to keep the spark alive between you, it helps to get a little creative with your goodnight text messages.
From flirty to sexy to sweet texts, there are many options to send to your love interest at your fingertips.
Need a little help? No sweat — here are 20 of the best examples of goodnight texts to help get you started.
20 Fun & Flirty Good Night Texts To Send Him
New Relationship Texts
If you want to stay on someone’s mind and ease the anxiety of early dating — because everyone wonders whether or not the person they’re dating is into them — then it’s a good idea to send a sweet-yet-simple goodnight text to your new squeeze.
Sending a “sweet dreams” message right before bedtime lets him know he’s the last person you’re thinking – and dreaming of which immediately cements a bond between you. Some examples to try tonight:
“I had a great time with you today. Have a great night, and can’t wait to see you again. :)”
“I hope you’re having a great night! Thinking of you. Nighty night!”
“Goodnight handsome! ;)”
“I hope you have sweet dreams and that all of them come true. Goodnight, cute person.”
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Have you arrived at official relationship status? Sweet and flirtatious good night text messages are an easy way to let your lover know that you not only appreciate him but that you’re also still very much attracted to him.
As relationship expert Chris Vitale told Datzie when you reassure your guy that you’re into him, then his confidence immediately boosts and he will want to keep showing up for you. Plus, guys love it whenever you make dating fun. The less (unimportant) seriousness they have to deal with, the more they can relax and let their guard down to you. Why not try these flirty ones later?
“I can’t wait to fall asleep and dream of you tonight. Xx”
“My bed is so lonely without you. 🙁 Night night.”
“I’m imagining you lying next to me. Wish it was the real thing. Night, babe.”
“You’re probably getting ready for bed now…Just know that I’m thinking of you and only you. G’night sweetie.”
“Guess what? I’m wearing that cute nightie you love. Wish you were here to see it. Goodnight, babe.”
“Baby, I can’t sleep. I wish you were here to soothe me into slumberland…or maybe something naughtier. Miss your face. Night xo.”
Sexy texts are a great way to deepen your intimacy with one another whether you’ve done the deed or not. They’re also particularly useful when you find yourself in a long-distance relationship, or if one of you is away on vacation or on a business trip. Try these to spice up your love:
“I wish you could hold me tonight…and then make love to me all morning long. Night, baby.”
“FYI: I’m sleeping naked tonight. And thinking of you. And doing…other things. Sweet dreams.”
“I just wanted you to know that I want you so badly right now, and I can’t wait to be naked with you. I’ll be dreaming dirty dreams of us tonight. Xxx”
“Hi, baby. I was just thinking of that time we did [fill in the blank] and how HOT that was. Good luck going to sleep now! HAHA! Night night. ;)”
“Miss me? [send sexy selfie] Sweet dreams, baby.”
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Committed Relationship Texts
According to a YouTube segment with relationship and dating coach, Amy North, and creator of the Texting Chemistry System, men tend to feel underappreciated by the women in their lives, which is why sending your guy a text that lets him know you’re so grateful for him is a great way to send him into sweet slumber. Some examples:
“I love and appreciate having you in my life. Sweet dreams, baby.”
“Thank you so much for your help with [blank] today. Your support really means a lot to me. Have a good night! Love you!”
“I know this sounds a little corny but I’m really thankful that we met. You’re the best, and you make me smile. Love you, babe. Nighty night.”
“I don’t want to go to bed without telling you how amazing you are at [blank]. Seriously, you’re the best, and I’m so grateful you’re mine. Goodnight, and I love you lots!”
“I’m just re-reading our texts right now, and I’m smiling ear to ear. You make me so happy. Goodnight, baby.”
So now that you’re armed with a number of amazing and romantic texts, there’s no doubt that you’ll be sending your sweetheart off into slumber with dreams of you and only you.
If you really want to send him texts that get his heart pulse racing for you and make him think of you and only you then check out Amy North’s Texting Chemistry System. Amy has taught hundreds of women how to build attraction and intense feelings of love and connection through her cleverly crafter psychological text messages. You can watch the video below to find out exactly how she does it.
There are simply hundreds of fun and flirty goodnight texts you can send him if you let your imagination run wild. However, by using Amy’s system you will be able to send text messages that speak directly to the pleasure centers in a man’s mind to trigger his attraction process for you.
For more ideas of texts to send your lover at bedtime, here is a video with forty more examples for you to check out!