Knowing how to attract a Virgo man can really make the difference between making him yours or losing him to another woman if you are in persuit of one.
When you’re out on the dating scene, it’s always helpful to know what you’re looking for. Sure, it’s easy enough to find someone who’s attractive or who likes some of the same things as you do. But often, it’s a very good idea to have an understand of the inner drives and desire of a man before you start to date them.
This is where a number of people cite the Zodiac and astrology. If you’re into astrology, and you know how effective it can be when looking into someone’s character, then you probably already know a lot of the details. If you’re not, then you may need a run down. Either way, you probably got to this article by looking for tips on attracting a Virgo man, so we’ll get to that after a quick summary of what to expect astrology to do for you.
Whether you deeply believe in astrology, or you came here with your tongue firmly pressed within your cheek, there are a few things that can generally be assumed about the practice.
One important point to understand is that it’s not set in stone. Individual people are, as always, individuals. Human beings are faceted. They contain multitudes. Just because a Virgo man will generally have certain traits doesn’t mean all of them will, or that all of them will have those traits in the same combination or at the same intensity. The details of why this has to do with the fact that astrology is more than just the sun sign (i.e., your birth sign), but rather a complex combination of different areas of the stars.
The second thing is that a sun sign does give a general idea of some things you can assume. You will have to adjust your thoughts and your tactics when you attract the right man, of course. But that’s no different from any courtship or dating situation. The more you get to know a person, the more you adjust your actions to match with them. Or not, as the case may be.
The Virgo Man Personality and How To Attract Him
So now, we get to the meat and potatoes of the article. Namely, how to attract a Virgo man.
There are a few things you should know about a Virgo. First and foremost, Virgo men have a habit of trying for perfection. They can be thoughtful and kind, but if you find a Virgo man who’s not very self-aware, then you may need to remind yourself that it’s not you, it’s them.
Humans have a tendency to presume they’re not at fault for things that go wrong, after all. So when a Virgo man is trying to ensure the relationship is perfect, and something goes wrong, they may not presume it’s their fault. So be ready to be firm in what you will and will not allow for yourself and your relationship.
The Virgo man has a tendency towards stability. This means that you’ll need to get a good idea of what he expects to happen in the relationship, and how quickly he expects it to happen. It’s not that a Virgo man is an unwilling lover, at least, not any more or less than any other sun sign. Rather, the spontaneity of an attempt at sudden passion could throw him off balance and make him uncomfortable.
This is all to say, try not to come on too strongly. State your desires clearly and early, and then get his input. It may make romance seem like some sort of negotiation, but if you want spontaneous animal passion, then a Scorpio man may be better for you.
That said, if you’re willing to let him set the pace, only pushing or prodding when he seems unsure of himself, you may do quite well. You will need to keep an eye on that; a Virgo man is often second-guessing himself. When one focuses so much on perfection and self-improvement, it’s easy to worry that any choice you’re about to make is going to be the wrong one.
Finding and attracting a Virgo man isn’t necessarily the easiest thing. But if you’re willing to be patient, and to lay out what you expect out of the relationship clearly and up front, you could find a great partner.