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How To Text Your Ex Boyfriend Back Into Your Arms

If you have broken up with your ex-boyfriend but you desperately want him back, don’t despair. In this article, I will show you how to get him back in your arms by using powerful text messages you can send today to win his heart again.

picture of two people texting their exNowadays, everyone texts and, fortunately, and you can use this stealthy mode of messaging to slip under the radar and straight back into his heart.

As a matter of fact, when you follow the correct steps, you can start to reignite that spark in your ex and bring him bounding back to you faster than a little lost puppy looking for his owner!

However, it goes without saying that sending text messages to your ex boyfriend can be a huge risk.

After all, misunderstandings are all too common when it comes to sending text messages, and especially to your ex.

Doing any one or a combination of the following critical text recovery mistakes can ruin your chances of getting back together with him forever.

  • Being needy
  • Being pushy and demanding
  • Double texting
  • Not sending the exact messages that make him want you back
  • Not texting at all

You have to be able to lay the right groundwork in order to make your text messages work to your advantage while trying to win back your ex boyfriend and also know the deadly pit-falls to avoid.

The Do’s & Dont’s of Text Message Recovery

What Are The Worst Ex-Texting Fails?

The last thing that you want to do is to come across as too needy when you are texting with someone that you want to get back together with.

If he is ignoring you, you need to learn that it is time to back off for a while and change your strategy.

Being too aggressive and pushy over text messaging can push him away even further.

You need to subtly pull him to you in a way that makes him think it’s all his idea, like Amy North shows here.

Shortly after a breakup, both parties involved can be quite unstable when it comes to emotions. The last thing you want to do is jump in and do something stupid that could be driven by emotion.

You need to give it a bit of a break after the two of you split up. Otherwise, your messages are simply going to get ignored at every turn. You have to wait and know how to recognize the right moment.

Never Text When You Are Drunk

women getting a bad text messageThis is never a good thing, but it is even more important when it comes to texting your ex.

Have you ever heard people say that your true feelings come out when you’re drunk?

When under the influence of alcohol you may be inclined to allow all those feelings to come gushing out, good or bad!

Regardless, you are more than likely to wake up the next morning to more than just a bad hangover when you look at your phone! This kind of behaviour is unlikely to get him to want you back.

How Can You Find The Perfect Moment?

If possible, try to go a full month without talking to or texting your ex-boyfriend.

Believe it or not, even though this seems impossible, the ‘no contact rule’ can end up stacking all of the odds in your favour in quite a big way.

Nearly all guys will end up thinking about their ex-girlfriend after they break up. You want to keep these thoughts going in his mind as long as possible, as absence really does make the heart grow fonder.

If he texts you during this blackout period, you have to resist the urge to text back.

Take this time to sit back and think about your relationship and at the same time, you are actually taking full control of the situation.

Once he realizes that you are not texting him, he will start to wonder what you are doing, how you are doing and who you are doing it with.

This is a great way to make him miss you and get him checking his phone to see if you are texting him.

Once this happens, it then becomes the perfect time for you to send those initial texts.

That First Text After The Breakup

A first impression really does mean everything, so you need to be very strategic about what you send for a text message after the blackout period of no contact.

To make sure you don’t mess up at this critical stage, send the exact text message Amy North recommends.

If you’d rather do it yourself without Amy’s expert help then best of luck. Make sure you put some thought into the text, make it interesting and if possible, bring up some fond memories that the two of you can relate to.

Think of some positive experiences that you share, such as a favourite movie, a vacation, an intimate bonding experience that only the two of you share and so on.

The trick is to choose an experience that the two of you shared that was both positive and emotive.

Sending the first text after the no contact period is a really big deal, so it is critical that you don’t mess it up.

The last thing you want is to end up humiliating yourself or worse yet, ruining your chances of getting him back and pushing him into the arms of another woman.

If you don’t want to leave any of this to chance and risk seeing your man with another woman because you messed this step up, listen to Amy North’s text message recovery advice here.

Be Careful About The Jealousy Factor

Jealous texts are a strategy that will not always work for everyone. You have to tread very lightly if you are unsure of how he will react. Before you send any sort of text that is aimed at making him jealous, it is important that you think it through first.

Is this something that you really want to do? Do you know how he normally reacts when you talk with other guys, etc.?

Texting him that you are meeting someone for coffee or heading out to the movies and being vague about who you are going with can be a good way to spark jealousy without straight out telling him that you are going out to meet another guy.

You can pull off the jealousy text without actually acting upon an outing with another guy.

woman on a cell phone

Insert A Little “Textual” Innuendo

Sending the occasional ambiguous text message with a sexual innuendo can work wonders to get him to think of you in a sexual way again.

Firstly, he will start to picture the two of you in whichever way you ‘innocently’ suggested and secondly, he will be confused as to whether the innuendo was deliberate or not. The secret it to not make the innuendo to overt.

See also: Sexting Tips For Talking Dirty To A Guy Over Text

Remember The Time When…

When texting your ex boyfriend, if things seem to be going well then bringing up a pleasant memory the two of you share about a time when you both really had fun together is a great way to get him to remember the good times.

Doing this now and then is a good way to make your ex miss you and sooner or later, he may start to feel like meeting up.

Just make it seem natural and conversational and don’t over do it.

Make Every Text Message Count

Once you are in full swing of texting your ex again, it is going to be important that you make every text count. Bringing up the fond memories, making him smile and showing him that you care all have to be balanced without coming across too needy on your part.

You can still let it hang off for a bit and leave it open without texting him right back. This will help him to wonder what you are doing and keep him coming back for more.

It is all a matter of being strategic all the way through with your texts until he finally gives you a lead in to make a move to try to reignite that spark once and for all. Once the two of you are are re-connecting, you can then work on making him love you again.

Each relationship is different and there could be a lot of history between the two of you that will still need to be resolved.

When one of you makes the move to see about meeting up, it is important that you try to keep it light before moving into heavy conversation as to what went wrong in the relationship.

The smarter you are, the easier it will be for you to be able to win your ex back through texting.

Final Important points…

If you do it right, texting your ex-boyfriend can bring the two of you back together and re-establish that connection you once had.

However, it can be a huge minefield and you can often be one step away from a disaster that can be un-recoverable if you don’t know how to send the right texts at the right times.

There are so many pitfalls that a person can put their foot into without even realizing. Once that happens it can all be over in an instant and your dreams of getting back together with your ex-lover will be lost forever.

To make sure you avoid these disastrous mistakes and lose your man to another woman, send these texts to him today to make him want you again, and only you.

 

 

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